Cayla,
This situation comes up a lot with new students coming in with mature dogs. Great question and you are correct that the Long Down is very important. However, remember Gir's life, what he has known and understood to be his life with you and Angel, has been totally uprooted and discarded. He will do the Long Down when he chooses to yield to your leadership.
The Long Down is a voluntary surrender, a yielding of the dog's will, to your will and leadership. Think of it as a quiet battle of wills. It may take many months of staying consistent in the Applewoods training for Gir to really understand his former life with you is really, really gone. Some dogs get stressed, some dogs fight (bite an owner), and some dogs simply stand and refuse to yield/surrender/lay down as they are letting you know they do NOT agree to your leadership and they are NOT yielding.
You have 5 years of training Gir already to be exactly what he is right now. To expect him to willingly yield right now, in a short time, is an unrealistic expectation on your part. Ask me how long it took for Red (Sugar's mom) to get over her inner outrage of me changing her prior life of being a princess and then a queen (when she whelped the puppies) and then, she lost all status as I started to train at Applewoods.
Sigh...unknowingly, we (my husband and I) made some early training mistakes by excusing Red's behavior and justified what she had become at 5 years old - a spoiled, rude dog with very little emotional or physical self-control. Once I started training Sugar at 9 1/2 weeks, I knew I had to change the rules and start over with Red and Crackers (the grandmother).
IT TOOK 10 MONTHS OF RED POUTING THAT HER PRIOR LIFE WAS FOREVER GONE FOR HER TO ACKNOWLEDGE MY LEADERSHIP AND BEGIN TO PAY ATTENTION. 10 months of her ignoring me, barking like a fool, stress whining and refusing to pay attention to me at all. 10 months.
Did that stop me from doing the Applewoods training on her while she acted out her frustration? Nope, I just became PIC (Persistent, Insistent & Consistent)and learned to be a CCC (Calm, Cool and Collected) owner and trainer. I learned a lot from Red about training a dog with a prior background. I learned even more about myself training Red and how easy it was to expect her to learn (or in this case, relearn) an entire new language as I was learning it. It was a tough journey for both of us.
Red taught me patience as she tested me - not in anger or biting - but she tested me to see if I meant what I was teaching her and would stick with it. At the end of 10 months, Red yielded on her own, and we began a new relationship based on leadership and respect. It was an incredible learning experience for me. Was it worth the effort, time and energy it took to get through this journey? Yes, 1000 times, yes. Red and I are better now for the experience.
Cayla, please, please, please try to understand Gir's world, as the world he knew with you, is gone. He has an entire array of emotions he is trying to sort out mentally. He is having to think (instead of manipulate you) and he is confused. He is a very smart dog and he will figure it out.
It will take time, an incredible amount of time and patience and you learning to be calm in the face of him refusing to yield. Gir will yield when you have earned his respect and he chooses to acknowledge you as a worthy leader
- and not until then will he yield.
You have the right to teach and train him to do what you expect him to do. He has the right to be stressed or whiney (avoidance behaviors) and to be upset. He doesn't get to avoid practicing the Long Down, but he does get to choose when to yield. When he does, recognize it is a gift and an indication of his mind shifting in how he views you.
In the meantime (and there will be a lot of meantimes) relax, do what you need to do with him, practice the Long Down and someday, one day (not in this class or maybe not even in the Middle School Class) when you least expect it, he will choose to yield. That is his choice and you MUST allow him the time he needs to choose.
So relax, go find a couple of places you like doing the Long Down, and do them. Don't worry about whether Gir is doing the Long Down or not, you can't make him (that's the entire point of this exercise) so give it up, practice it when you can as much as you can and Gir will yield when Gir chooses to yield.
Wait and see...Gir's mental inner transformation is only just now beginning.
The best is yet to come.
Roxanne